Psychologist Andreia CalçadaDisclosure
Published 04/26/2024 00:00
Children sometimes lie, even if they have been taught by their parents about the importance of not lying, and the reasons for this to happen are diverse. From the naivety typical of age to the fear of facing the consequences of their actions.
Andreia Calçada, clinical and legal psychologist, highlights the importance of teaching children to distinguish between fantasy and reality, as well as understanding the consequences of their actions. She points out that lies can arise as defense mechanisms or to avoid uncomfortable feelings, such as fear or guilt. “It is important to teach them to distinguish fantasy from reality and to understand the consequences of ‘made up stories’ in real life. It is important to realize that these lies often arise as defense mechanisms or to avoid dealing with uncomfortable feelings, such as fear or guilt,” she emphasizes.
Open dialogue and emotional support are essential to guide children. Establishing limits from an early age, highlighting ethical values such as honesty, respect and responsibility, helps shape children’s behavior and helps them grow up ethical and responsible.
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